Really there will always be stumbling blocks in any relationship dynamic. In poly they come up a bit faster I think. Being aware of that and being ready to slow down again is the best one can do.
None of the drama is the end of the world. It doesn't have to be the end of your relationships either. Its a matter of letting everything go and embracing anything that comes up. I have learned that you have to love the journey, love the work it takes if you want to be successful at being in a poly dynamic. Otherwise it will possibly eat you up from the inside from the pain and pushing of "the self" it can cause.
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