I think my wife might ruin a great friendship
My wife and i are kind of new to the poly life. we have a great friend we hang out with 1-3 times a week with and travel with once in a while for the last 2 years.
My wife has always like him but now started to have feeling for him and told him , he also liked her but was very about are friendship and would do nothing to hurt it. long story short they went on a date he fell head over heels for her but she thinks she made a mistake in telling him she like him and going out on a date.
We feel if she didnt go out with him the feelings would have only gotten bigger but now that she has it might crush him because he really really into her . we are new to poly so we are barely learning to deal with our feelings but now i think we might really hurt thr 3rd.
Last edited by joedirte; 10-12-2009 at 06:30 PM.