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Old 06-19-2011, 03:32 PM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Originally Posted by Merxill View Post

Given the details I've supplied here in my replies to others as well, I'm not sure how to do that. I've tried to leave many times. Something always happens so that I am guilted and pressured back. I want to leave and I don't want to have to feel guilty for it. The guilt here is huge. The pressure is huge.
The only thing that happened is you decided to stay. You always chose to stay. Own those choices. They are yours. You made them. Repeatedly.

If you don't like that, choose something different. Stop making excuses and choose something different.
When speaking of various forms of ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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