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Old 06-19-2011, 02:59 AM
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Originally Posted by SourGirl View Post
You are 100% right on the money there. Its been my experience, that the very same people screaming for privacy, actually mean secrecy. They want the ability to keep hush about what suits them, and the ability to whine and gossip about what doesn`t.
I don't think there's enough discussion about the social-politics of secrecy, shame, and fear. I think people are afraid of what they imagine could happen as a result of their secrets being made public and that results in repressive avoidance of openness. Of course you want to respect people who are sensitive to information-disclosure, but where does that leave you in questioning why there's a need for secrecy in the first place?
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