but then wouldn't you say that people also have the right not to have their partner talk about them with friends, therapists, etc.?
Re: "therapy" analogy
Please don't insult my intelligence like that.
That's an extremely flawed comparison. I talk to my GYN about those things but it's hardly the same as telling one partner what I do with the other partner. I ask my GYN for STD tests, but I don't tell my husband how many condoms my boyfriend and I used within a certain time period.