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Old 06-18-2011, 06:34 AM
Ilove2men Ilove2men is offline
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I don't deny that people have been through similar and sometimes I identical situations. Situations don't make the outcome or experience. The individuals with their contraints make and experience what it is. So because of this the same situation can and does lead people to different emotions and outcomes. In effect to me this is another spectrum. Point A to point B and all the gray in between. I think people come on here asking that question to find similar experiences and how other's have dealt with it to compare and find their own place in that spectrum. I think it's natural to seek guidance from those with experience and when people form questions as " has anyone been through this before" the majority of the time its voicing a fear of "what if I'm the first. What if I have to go through this without guidance."
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