Originally Posted by HappiestManAlive
Very strange. I seldom have a problem with it for a striaght-up one night stand or strictly sexual encounter
I'm not that surprised..I think most guys are quite capable of that. I certainly thought I would be...turns out nope! When I think back to even my early teens I was like this...I just didn't realize what was happening.
It took me 37 years, a 17 year marraige, an affair, a melt down of biblical proportions, counselling, a polyamorous relationship and tonnes of self analysis to figure out a simple concept.....no connection = nothing to "connect" with