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Old 06-17-2011, 04:44 PM
Minxxa Minxxa is offline
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Join Date: Apr 2011
Location: California
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I know that I have had a certain "curiosity" as to what hubs and his GF do, but I've never asked because I do feel like that would be a violation of their privacy. Hubs and I have spoken in theory about how if something new gets discovered with another person we'd like the ability to maybe introduce it into our relationship (this working both ways), but specific details to me seems really voyeuristic and not in a voluntary way.

I totally agree with seeing why knowing the details brings you security, and working on it from that angle. Really, in the long run, it may take more work, but the personal growth that comes with finding and eliminating insecurities is much more longlasting.
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