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Old 06-17-2011, 02:51 PM
Fayerweather Fayerweather is offline
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I've found that when one of my bf's goes on a date and I feel insecure or lonely, I can usually trace those feelings back to something in my own life that hasn't been running smoothly i.e I haven't worked out in a while, feel fat and or unattractive, haven't been paying my bills, washing the dishes, or working on my career.

When I feel this way and one of my bf's is off with another woman, I usually work on these missing aspects like cleaning up, going for a run, giving myself a pedicure, or talking on the phone with an old friend. Sometimes, as MINXXA said, I just "sit with" those feelings and weather my way through them as a form of meditation
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