Originally Posted by Magdlyn
Seems to me there are a lot of people coming here who have formerly IDed as swingers, but found themselves falling in love with a partner, which then causes jealousy in their primary.
There must be swingers out there who are able to keep emotions out of sex, for extended periods of time. I guess we wouldn't see them here, though. Maybe it is easier for men, who are trained to ignore their emotions almost from birth.
But it seems biology is against those that attempt swinging, FWBs, NSAs, and even unicorn type arrangements. It's well known that having sex with someone causes a release of oxytocin, which is the primary hormone involved in mammal bonding. How can we fight nature?
we have been swining for 4 years. neither of us have fallen for any of our playmates. so im guessing we are that fluke you are looking for. we keep swining recreational and know that we are the ones that we come home to. so far jellous free the whole way.
i believe the reason y you cant find swingers that keep emotions out of it in a POLY FORUM is becuas of just that fact that your in a poly forum. people that end up seeking out this type of forum probably couldnt keep emotions out of the way.