So I just reread my journal because hubs' GF (I need to give her an actual code name on here!) is trying to figure out her role in this situation, and I know that maybe reading about other people's experiences and asking some questions might help her out.
Luckily for me apparently even when I'm falling apart I'm considerate, so nothing in the journal (I don't think) that I'd not want her to read. I didn't think so, because I do like her and I'm a pretty kind hearted person, but I've been a bit off-keel the past week! LOL
Anyway, hoping to get her some info and maybe she'll get over here to ask questions. I would hope she could feel comfortable, but then maybe she would have trouble asking what she needs to if I might read it? I'd understand that, too. We shall see...