Originally Posted by nycindie
Curious - do you feel you are closer to that? Is that even what your husband's friend would want? Maybe she's happy with things the way they are and doesn't want it to go further, but do you think you will ever embrace having additional relationships?
Oh, they are completely happy with things as they are and knowing her, I NEVER see it going any further physically. I am completely open to either or both of us having additional physical relationships, but we haven't really discussed it yet (we have been working on solving some other issues we had). I just don't see myself going out of my way to set up "dates". I am actively trying to expand my circle of friends and activities to stuff I enjoy, with the freedom that I don't have to censor and control my feelings (actions yes). I had a list of things I needed to do for me and I think I'm only on number 2 or 3 and we are about 9 months into trying to fix things.