I'm a gender and queer theory nerd, so threads like this are exciting.
I am a 23 year-old femme, and am I ever QUEER as the day is long - make no mistake. I base my attraction on chemistry - not genitalia/presentation. Some of you might call me pansexual or omnisexual, but I prefer to refer to myself as radically, amazingly queer.
I also tend to be dominant, in case you're interested.
Just out of a bad breakup (1.5 months and counting), but I live in a poly-friendly community and have been intimate with friends of mine (of numerous gender presentations) since the breakup. Excited to get back into the dating game.