Originally Posted by Tonberry
I find that writing is good when I'm too emotional as I'm unable to speak at all in these times, and just the prospect of doing so scares me and makes it worse. Even when being face to face I've had "let's go talk on IMs" moments until we reached a point when I felt able to handle face to face communication again.
But I think it's probably something that really depends on the people involved. If writing doesn't work for you guys, make sure to keep that in mind
Also when it's easier at the moment b/c I am too emotional to vocalize things I will write. But I will then say, can we discuss this when I have calmed down a bit and make sure it was taken the way it was meant.