I understand what Adam may be going through.....I think he just wants to try to make the hurt less and I think he knows he can't ..I think you should lean on him because he is trying to understand what your feeling right now .....he must love you enough to want to give you a soft place to be and help you through the hurt ....it's not a bad thing for him to try and do that ....maybe the stress Adam is feeling is he can't stop the hurt ....nobody wants to see the one they love hurting........I know ( being the hinge in a "v" myself)....I would hope that if something happened and I was to lose one of them ( Sea or Sweetie)...I would hurt more then I could say....but would take comfort in Knowing that either one would want to help me through the hurt....don't know if this helps .....
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