She sounds like a manipulative, selfish, bitch who drinks way too much. It sounds like she gets a thrill out of the lying and secrets. You appear completely willing to have an open relationship, so why would she even need to have an affair and give an ultimateum? Now that she is caught and she can't carry on the affair in secret, she needs to have absolute control.
OK, that came out harsh and angry. I am angry, but usually I just wouldn't have said anything. Sorry!
Last edited by SNeacail; 06-14-2011 at 11:17 PM.