definitely scared away my emailer. When he asked to play, I wanted to give our spouses a chance to meet up and the two of us over coffee before setting any playdates and he pretty much disappeared. Wonder what he needs to hide from his wife?
In any case I am so busy with my new job, and being a mom and enjoying the energy between myself and my hubby that I am not feeling much need to look for new relationships.
I am content to know that hubby loves me, and also gets to feel that he has freedom to explore his needs. I have the same freedom, just don't know anyone who causes me to feel any needs right now.