Mono refuses to read Sex at Dawn, which also goes into great detail about how people are not biologically monogamous. Men are good for a shot or 2, women have the potential to be mega-orgasmic, and in hunter gatherer societies, are open to having several partners pleasure her during one sex session. The first guy just warms her up.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place. --Shaw
me: Mags, female, pansexual, 59, loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, 37