Welcome to the site hun!
Another place you could try exploring (if you don't already - pretty common site within the lifestyle...) is www.fetlife.com
There are a few groups that are dedicated to Poly as it relates to BDSM.
HMA and I have a few close friends who practice Gorean - like he said, not our cup of tea (though I do own a kick-ass Panther Girl outfit...), but if it's comfy for you, the power to ya. Fetlife also has several groups dedicated to the Gorean lifestyle.
I hope we aren't making an incorrect assumption as to your BDSM tendencies, but the name "kajira" is kind of a dead give-away. Enjoy your stay!