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Old 10-09-2009, 06:16 PM
NeonKaos NeonKaos is offline
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Originally Posted by Ceoli View Post
I think how we define equality is the issue. I prefer to think of things as "fair" rather than equal. Fairness is more along the lines of "equal opportunity to have my needs met in a relationship". Knowing that my needs are not going to be the same as other people's needs and that there is always going to be a balance. However, in that balancing act, my needs are being taken into consideration rather than being trumped by the needs or insecurities of another partner.
That is a good point. Fairness.

Originally Posted by Ceoli View Post
(and I see nothing wrong with with topics showing up in more than one thread....there are always differences and nuances, and there has never been a perfectly compartmentalized forum in the history of the internet)
I meant to encourage folks to go searching for those other threads rather than me doing it for them. I did not mean that a topic should be confined to one thread only.
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