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Old 06-13-2011, 08:18 PM
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You do not need to be best buds with the friend. It's not required. In fact, you do not need to like said friend. But you will have to deal with him respectfully and honestly if you want to build a healthy non-monogamous relationship with your wife.
Just for clarification purposes, the guy already was Bangel's best friend:
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My wife of 4 years has recently told me that she is in love with my bestfriend who lives upstairs from us . . . I have not spoken to my best friend in a week because I feel that if he was my friend he would have stepped away.
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