Thank you for all the posts.
I've been thinking about this some more, and I think the concept of loving freely has started to sound a lot less frightening. It really helped just to write about it and analyse a bit more where the fear came from.
I read about the concept of fullness in another thread, and I find it useful. That's how I would describe myself at the moment: poly but full, i.e. not open for other romantic relationships. I do think it possible that this will change in the future, but right now I really just want to concentrate on the relationships I have now.
Oh, and I definitely agree with this!
Originally Posted by Gecko
Its so nice to read about people 'getting it' in the same way. This forum rocks.
There is so much information and so much to think about here! So many concepts I find useful, not just in poly but in everyday life.