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Old 06-11-2011, 02:15 AM
transitapparent transitapparent is offline
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any violation of trust hurts, this is true. I think sex is put so high on a pedestal because it's such an interpersonal thing. even in a monogamous relationship, I don't believe there is anything saying that you can't love other people. you love your friends, you love your new extended family, etc but it's a different kind of love. sex is something that is supposed to be an exclusive thing. in poly you are extending full love, sexual and emotional, a whole different kind of relationship with others. cheating in a poly relationship would be crossing any number of boundaries that were set I think, violating the trust of your partner. maybe I'm way off the mark but thats how I look at it.
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