Hi and welcome!
Looking forward to getting to know you. How have you and she been "doing polyamory?" (being a poly site, I assume you do not mean swinging when you say you've been doing "this" for years). What are all your relationships like? What kind of poly "configuration" are you in? Curious minds, here!
There's a Life Stories and Blogs section for writing a little bit abut your background. I have heard that there's a bit of a poly community in Austin.