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Old 06-09-2011, 05:29 PM
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Jeez, RP. I don't know how else to say it, but... Leo sounds like a pain in the ass, LOL. Seriously, you have such a full life and so much going on regularly that you don't need someone so high-maintenance, too! If you think there's a way to save it, great, but what exactly are you saving? Whenever you talk about your relationship with him, it usually sounds like the scales are tipped in his favor, not yours and not balanced, and you're always trying to make something work out of whatever few and minor benefits you can eke out of it. I think you are trying to be nice about it and always want to give him the benefit of the doubt, and it seems like you keep hoping for it to evolve into something better and more satisfying -- but maybe at this point, it is just always going to be at your own expense. Do you really need that?
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