BU and E, you might be right, in fact, by the very fact that the OP sout out an opinion makes me want to agree with you. However, what we are used to seeing on here is emotional and financial rescue of unicorns who haven't found there own feet when they were taken on by a couple. Usually they come to us after a break up, or during one and wonder what went wrong. Well, what went wrong was that they didn't find their independance before launching into a complicated relationship dynamic it usually appears like.
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