Originally Posted by Tinyblu
4) Prospect of loving more than one - this can go so many ways. I am not gaining ONE lover or friend or SO, but could potentially connect to the other people in his life and generate additional, strong relationships
I'm sure there will be more as time goes on (I haven't fully wrapped myself around number 4 yet, but I know it's coming).
Although I think this list is great, this (emphasis added) put me off a little. You don't have to only partner up with other people in HIS life, instead of looking out for connections of your own?