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Old 06-08-2011, 04:22 AM
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Originally Posted by AnnabelMore View Post
And I certainly can try to negotiate for Harry, I just don't know if it'd be a dealbreaker... and I still don't even know if I want to *try* to make a deal, so... yeah. *sigh*
All you have to ask yourself is... is Davis more important to you than Harry? Remember, you will be starting anew. Why not just take it slowly, with a few dates here and there, no negotiations or contract, for a few months and just see if you even want anything with him again. Letting go of Harry before you even know if there is something solid and worth rekindling (he's an ex for a reason, right?) might be disastrous and hurtful to Harry.
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