Originally Posted by nycindie
I got the sense from RP's post about that book that it wasn't written about D/s but about dominance as a personality trait. I thought that maybe she was taking what it said and looking at it through the context of her experience in BDSM - but maybe I'm wrong. Hey, RP, what book was it, btw? Maybe someone else here has read it and can offer another opinion of the stance it takes.
It was about personality traits... I shouldn't of started there. It really threw me for a loop. Although it lead me to think why there is a difference between personality traits and BDSM relationships and kink... I thought they would be similar... interesting.
It wasn't a book... it was some links on line that I don't have anymore. I got Mono to read it. He thought it was personality related also.