Originally Posted by Tonberry
Being dominant certainly doesn't mean you need to be bitchy. Actually I'd think the bitchy ones are those who don't have the presence and need the bitching.
Not to mention, being dominant in the bedroom doesn't have to be reflected anywhere else. There is no reason to treat everybody the way you treat your sexual partners.
And, RP, why precisely would you give a shit what other people think a Dominant woman is? You (with partner) my love define your relationships, not other people.
I'm not bitchy when it comes to my Dominance. Furthermore, there's no way I would be submissive to someone who was.
There is a presence that comes from within and if you have it-you have it and you don't have to flaunt it for show.
I'm not GG's Dom because I "act like it". I'm his Dom, because it's always been that way NATURALLY for us and it fits, something in him naturally submits to something in me that naturally steps up to take charge. Key word-take charge, not "control".