Originally Posted by HappiestManAlive
Have you ever fell for someone - maybe a crush, but lets limit it to a longer-lasting, more "meaningful" kind of feeling - while in a committed relationship - that in no way lessened or detracted for your feelings toward your current SO?
Thats exactly how it is for me! Thanks for the post. Reading this forum makes me feel validated for feelings and silent struggles that i thought I was wrong for having for so long, because my partner is totally mono and doesn't struggle at all in our relationship (apart from putting up with me haha).
It doesnt mean that she isnt perfectly fine herself, theres nothing wrong with mono, but I really have no idea of how to get through this with her, without just suppressing it.