Originally Posted by redpepper
I suggest they do some reading here under "cheating"... it takes years to get over cheating... I dare say that one never gets over it entirely. It is so damaging to the very core of our trust that one is never quite right again...
Ok RP - a paddling is in order here
((getting out big leather paddle))
You are stating YOUR truth (and wounds)
"Cheating" is no different than anything else. Onece you truly
understand it and build a framework to eliminate it in the future (as much as possible with humans) it becomes nothing more than just one of the many lessons we learn. Making it more than that gives it power over you it doesn't deserve. But it's US that give it that power - not itself.