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Old 10-06-2009, 09:07 PM
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Originally Posted by LovingRadiance View Post

So maybe let up on the what if of the future possibility of him finding someone who is mono and just live for today with him.
I totally get the living for the day thing and in fact did that to get through a phase in my own relationship. Unfortunately I also found it froze the depth of our connection. We both wanted more from the future and growth. Living completely in the moment halted that for us.

What I have learned to do is accept possibilities but continue to move forward so I give the best of myself to our relationship. I refuse to let "what ifs" degrade my enjoyment of belief in the future. I will strive to make this relationship bloom until destiny herself tells me otherwise if that is in fact her intention

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