problem resolved...he Quit. didnt even try.. her response? i'm happy it wont effect work. ( we work togeather) i'm sorry here but that is not poly.. worried about where the money comes from rather then whats important in life, love and family after i explained it to her? ... is not poly... i can say in time he wil see he is with the wrong woman, and i dont mean me, i mean he should live with the one that has been around the longest. and leave the one who is clealy after everything for the wrong reasons as a secondary.
she has taken his poly life ( again) and made it for just her. and he doesn't even see it... i wont be the last girl he goes threw
thank you all for your help, it mean ALOT