I have ONLY ever had ONE BAD break-up that I remember anyhow...and that was in October.
We were a Triad (rotating degrees of love) for about 4 months. It got outta control and we ended it! AND it sucked hard....but....I borrowed from Dan Savage, and focused in on my Primary and had NO contact whatsoever with the third.
I was crushed and heart-broken....and it took me months to get over it. In the end, I needed a heated email exchange to come to my senses and block her from my life.
I still have NOT spoken to her in person or on the phone, but....maybe after a couple of years, that may be an option.
It feels good to not have her hanging over me anymore....really good. It was a lot of fricking work though. Ug!!
We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.
~ Oscar Wilde