Originally Posted by LostSailor
A year ago we were ready to end it.
So, at the time you were nearly ready to end your marriage she started another relationship with E. This actually says alot. Did you fix the things that were causing problem in the first place or did they get glossed over? It sounds like it's time to sit down and take a hard look at some of the issues you guys had a year ago. Stuff can seemingly be ignored for a while, but what it's really doing is building resentments.
What are you doing on the nights she is gone? Do you have things to do that are just for you?