Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
Just to be clear and take responsibility for my own stuff. Redpepper has called me on some shitty behaviour and the result is I am a better person for it. She "judged" me and ultimately I felt shame and not anger. I learned to correct my actions in certain areas. I thank her for that...I don't resent her.
Yep You can say that again Mono.If LR hadnt " busted me" for the dumb ass and sometimes down right mean things Ive done I would be continuing to do and say those things to ppl that care about me.Fact is humans dont learn or change with out pain of some sort physical, mental,or emotional. Good luck I wish you the very best.