Originally Posted by LovingRadiance
Check out the thread on "the thirdness of being a third" (think that is the name either way it's close to that) by Ceoli-it might enlighten you to some of what HE may have to "look forward to" so to speak in this situation. Well worth the read anyway.
I would give him his time away to think. Then let him know briefly when he returns that "when you are ready to talk I'm looking forward to the discussion".
Then when/if he's ready to discuss-ask all those questions you said in here!!!
Wow, thank you so much. I've done several searches on this site and on the web in general hoping to find a thread discussing a similar experience. I'm so grateful and so impressed by the help offered on this forum.