Originally Posted by limbo
I'll have to ask him if we're done discussing any more poly stuff, and go on as if I never said anything, point blank.
He claims my husband is the luckiest man in the world, and he wishes I had a twin sister! But I think I read it elsewhere that he is what is called a "conditioned mono," and whatever he feels for me, he just can't ever go there.
This is very refreshing! Being able to recognize the potential of a friendship and accepting the limits of it's depth is very important. Maybe he will embrace this opportunity or maybe you will maintain your friendship as is. Either way I hope you all are happy and healthy