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Old 05-29-2011, 04:07 PM
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Thank you all for the wonderful replies I appreciate it! I took a train ride down to a friend's house on Friday, and on the 4 hour ride, I thought a lot about the situation and tried to figure out where my head was/is and why I feel a need to have some connection with this man. Yes, I do love him dearly and in the relationship we had, he had almost become a second 'husband' to me. But that relationship happened in a different time and in a different dynamic for him and the four of us. My head has been telling me all along to step back from him, let him rebuild his life and if he wants to have any contact with me, let him approach me... its just that my heart has not wanted to follow along with the logic in my head

Thanks again for your input. Its so wonderful to have a 'family' to sort things out with, so to speak
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