Gosh, if I were that Craigslist guy, I would not have been comfortable sharing naked pix of myself fucking my play partner for the first time, with her bf.
Did you tell them both ahead of time, you expected pix? Or just texted randomly during their date, "Hey, I want pix of you 2 having sex"? Myself, I am usually too busy actually having sex, to manage a camera and get a good flattering angle of the goings-on. Unless I plan well ahead. On a first date? Never.
You picked up this guy just for the thrill of it, for the sex only. Your desire for pix (to "combat your jealousy") actually could have made him feel very objectified. Then dragging him into the bedroom to perform for you? Bleh. I find the whole situation kind of embarrassing.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags, F, 60, poly-dating, loving and living with
miss pixi, F, 38
Punk, 41, M (dating since Oct 2015)
and a few more casual relationships