Originally Posted by Ceoli
Honestly, if it took 22 years for it to happen, I'd probably chuck the idea of being poly out the window and just search for it in a monogamous context. I'm really not willing to wait that long.
NO KIDDING-but Maca's dad isn't poly. It just took him 4 marriages, 3 divorces and all those years to find a woman who loved him and wasn't using him.
Maca's point was that you will find someone to be 1st with.