Originally Posted by JnR
He seems to make time for the ladies he is currently dating, but just doesn't have it for me.
What people *do* is the single greatest indicator of what they actually think and feel. If he isn't making time for you and he is making time for others, it's not important to him to make time for you. You've made your thoughts and feelings known, so until he shows some signs of interest, leave him be.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.
While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.