Originally Posted by Erosa
Therefore, I have to ask; WHY in poly are nearly all the men I have met hetero-sexual?
I realize that I am talking about a sub-group. But if the statistics are so close, then I would expect to see more bi men who are seeking to join a couple, or more couples who are seeking to have truly inter-mingles love (not just wife trading.)
My experience on this says the stats are right around correct, if not a little on the low side. Out of every male I know in a poly type relationship (yes, I'm including open ones as well), most are at least bi-curious with about 1-10 being fully bi. I myself identify with bi-curious (mostly because I won't commit to bi-sexual until I've done more) and Wendigo, my wife's boyfriend, is fully bi-sexual.
Then again, it could just be where I'm living as well.