It sounds like you are doing all you can at this point then and I really hope that your patience and persistence pays off.
Things on here are not always what they seem so do it your way and keep at creating the life you want...
The most important thing I have noticed from writing to people on here and off of here, is that taking time, and being patient rather than jumping the gun seems to bring better solutions and understanding to how it will work for the individuals involved. I hope in some way that knowledge I am passing on helps.
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