Originally Posted by Interested32
Is it easier being a single looking for a couple or a couple looking for a third. Since I am single I have the view of that a least the couple have each other to support each other. Can you give me different views?
Neither is easier. It depends on the people involved.
Being a couple doesn't naturally make it easier. Some people can offset the pressure by leaning on their partners, others can't.
In the end, for most people... poly isn't easy..
You do have an advantage in your searching though. There are many... many.. more couples looking for singles than visa versa.