Originally Posted by Purpurea
I think what characterizes the need for a mono relationship is the need to feel to come first to your partner. ?
I'm actually in a mono relationship right now and just started getted interested in poly. I started hanging out with a male friend at work (who is also married and is in an open marriage). My husband had told me he was okay that I spend time with my friend at work. He knew we were being playful with each other. He only had 2 rules. One being careful if we did become intimate and two he's #1.
Honestly not completely sure what that can mean at times.