thank you, i think maybe i put to much into what i was told as to what i got, two diffrent situations, i have low expectations and am having a hard time understanding why they dont count. i love him and want to be apart of it BUT you can only knock on an unaswered door so long, before you have to walk away, even if your heart is telling you not too
i have been told in poly meetups one question that is asked is " are you getting what you need?" well in a two person relationship if someone is not getting what they need, you work on it, (try) so, is this reserved ONLY for priamry's? if so doesnt that just make you...well just sex?