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Old 05-22-2011, 05:24 PM
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Default Reaching out to his primary when we're both new at this?

I met a very nice guy and we had a very nice couple of times hanging out. Yay! After our second time hanging out, he requested that I email his girlfriend to introduce myself and say thanks for letting me borrow him for a while. I agree that it's the proper thing to do, but I don't know what to say. This is apparently her first polyamorous relationship, and I'm inexperienced enough with poly where I've never been in this situation.

So my question is: if you were in her shoes, what would (or wouldn't!) you want to see in a message from me? Maybe I should just keep it really bare bones? And stop overthinking everything in my life?
Find me out
I'm not just made of hearts
Oh you can break right through this box
You put me into

--Sleater Kinney, "Heart Factory"
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