Thanks! I'm glad to not be the only geek here.
Things are looking better and better all the time. My husband and I were talking things over last night, and he just got this big grin on his face. When I asked him what that was about, he said, "I'm just so happy we can finally be honest like this." Aaaaah...bliss.
I'm wondering - I've read on these forums about NRE, and it almost feels like the act of talking about poly with my husband has brought us back to that stage in a way. Or is that something different?